SOCIAL ASSISTANCE - သဂၤဟ၀တၳဳ

SOCIAL ASSISTANCE Saṅgahavatthu

သဂၤဟ၀တၳဳ - သဂၤဟတရားေလးပါး၊ ခ်ီးေျမႇာက္ေထာက္ပံ့ေရးတရား။

မိဘႏွင့္သားသမီး၊ ဆရာႏွင့္တပည့္၊ မိတ္ေဆြအသင္းအပင္း၊ လူသားအခ်င္းခ်င္း ေပါင္းသင္းဆက္ဆံၾကရာ၌ ေအာက္ပါ သဂၤဟတရားေလးပါးသည္ အလြန္လုိအပ္၏။ စည္း႐ုံးညီၫြတ္မႈ၊ ခ်စ္ခင္မႈ၊ ၿငိမ္းခ်မ္းမႈကုိ ျဖစ္ေစ၏။

သဂၤဟတရားေလးပါးကား ေအာက္ပါအတုိင္းျဖစ္သည္ -
(၁) ဒါန - ေထာက္ပံ႔ေပးကမ္းမႈ။
လူအခ်င္းခ်င္း ေပါင္းသင္းဆက္ဆံရာ၌ ေထာက္ပံ႔ေပးကမ္းျခင္းျဖင့္ ခ်ီးေျမႇာက္ထုိက္သူကုိ ေထာက္ပံ႔ေပးကမ္းမႈျဖင့္သာ ေပါင္းသင္းရမည္။

(၂) ေပယ်၀စၥ - ခ်စ္ျမတ္ႏုိးဖြယ္ရာ ခ်ဳိသာစြာ စကားဆုိမႈ။
ေပးကမ္းမႈကုိ အလုိမရွိ၊ ခ်စ္ျမတ္ႏုိးဖြယ္ရာ ခ်ဳိခ်ဳိသာသာ ေျပာဆုိဆက္ဆံမႈကုိသာ အလုိရွိေသာသူအား ခ်ဳိခ်ဳိသာသာ ေျပာဆုိမႈျဖင့္သာ ေပါင္းသင္းရမည္။

(၃) အတၳစရိယာ - ႀကီးပြားတုိးတက္ေၾကာင္းကုိ သြန္သင္ၫႊန္ျပေပးမႈ။
ေပးကမ္းမႈ စသည္ကုိ အလုိမရွိ၊ မိမိဘ၀၏ ႀကီးပြားတုိးတက္ေရးကုိ လုိလားေသာသူအား ႀကီးပြားတုိးတက္ေၾကာင္းကုိ သြန္သင္ၫႊန္ျပေပးမႈျဖင့္သာ ေပါင္းသင္းရမည္။

(၄) သမာနတၱတာ - ေနထုိင္စားေသာက္ေရး၌ မိမိႏွင့္ ထပ္တူျပဳမႈ။
ေပးကမ္းမႈ စသည္ကုိ အလုိမရွိ၊ ေနထုိင္စားေသာက္ေရး၌ ခြဲျခားမႈမျပဳဘဲ မိမိႏွင့္တန္းတူ ျပဳမႈကုိသာ အလုိရွိသူအား မိမိႏွင့္ ထပ္တူျပဳမႈျဖင့္သာ ေပါင္းသင္းရမည္။

Altruism; benevolence
In relations between parents and children, between teacher and pupils, between friends and in human society, four kinds of assistance are essential for achieving unity, goodwill and peace.

The four kinds of assistance are :-
(1) Dana – giving material assistance
In associating with people, one should give material assistance in from of cash and kind to those who need them.

(2) Peyyavacca – saying pleasing and endearing words.
In associating with those who do not need material assistance but wish to be treated well, one should speak pleasing and endearing words to them.

(3) Atthᾱcariya – giving good counsel.
In associating with those who do not need material assistance but wish to have good counsel, one should give them good counsel towards achieving prosperity and progress.

(4) Samᾱnattata – to treat other as one’s equal.
In associating with those who do not need material assistance but wish to be treated as an equal, one should treat them as an equal in all dealings.